some of y’all
get so damn BUTTHURT over some K-Pop
(This post is referring to the backlash on Simon and Martina’s video “Battle of the B Name Boy Bands: BAP and BTS”. This is just my opinion on what I feel is overwhelming hate for their purely satirical video on the K-Pop groups mentioned. If you wanna fight me about it, whatever, come at me bro. I AIN’T SCURRED.)
I’m gonna be a blunt bitch about it, yes. I completely and whole-heartedly understand what it’s like to love a piece of art and what it feels like when someone else doesn’t like it as much as I do. But does that give me a reason to shit talk the person and make hateful comments and use all sorts of derogatory terms because they “personally hurt me”? Grow the fuck up, you guys.
This is one of the reasons I dislike the K-Pop fandom so much these days. Some of you netizens get so damn hurt because of this obsession with idolized Korean youngsters you don’t even know. I’m not discrediting their talents, I’m not bashing their image or what they want to portray artistically. They’re free to do whatever the hell they want and, like Martina stated, I’m free to not like it and have my opinion on it.
There’s a difference between loving a piece of art/music and defending it versus feeling personally hurt as if those negative comments were directed at your person. You have GOT to be kidding me. I’m going to assume a lot of the fandom these days is pretty young. I’m a little older and I got into K-Pop back in like, 2006/2007, so I guess I’m just an old fart in comparison. I’ve got pretty thick skin now, but even back then I didn’t take it so personally when someone disliked the K-Pop I was into (comments like “He looks like a girl!” and “Wth is this music I don’t get it, why do you even listen to this?” got thrown around plenty, trust me). So maybe the younger crowd is a little more sensitive about it. But I’m not gonna be the “nice guy” and baby your feelings.
Sometimes there is no reasoning with this fandom because the people can be so obtuse and ignorant. No point in just trying to get them to be a little more accepting of peoples’ opinions instead of blindly worshiping their biases. Once again, the term “loving racism” comes to mind. Calling others ignorant and “offensive” when you really need to check yourself.
There is more to life than K-Pop.
…Someone should make a shirt that says that.
I’ll probably delete this sooner or later idk I just need to say it because it makes me so mad.
I’m so fucking tired of girls’ shit. I’m all for feminism and standing up for yourself but feminism isn’t about hurting other people so you can feel validated in yourself. Girls fucking know what they’re capable of, they know they have an advantage, and they know how to manipulate people. We’re not fucking innocent. It’s not an eye for a fucking eye. It’s not “you did it to me, so let’s see how you feel”. Ain’t no excuse for hurting someone who was trying to take responsibility for their mistakes and change themselves because they want to be better for you. For YOU. Way to be blind and shallow and fucking immature.
I try to keep an open mind. I try to trust what people tell me. But then I see you go and do THAT. I’ve seen this happen too many times to too many perfectly good guys, I won’t ever understand it.
This might rub someone the wrong way. I don’t care. I’m obviously not talking about every single girl/woman on Earth. I’m just seeing a lot of shit going on and it just bothers me.
Probably going to delete this post. Yeah.